Lydia writes:
"Finalè
Life is often described as a little like being on a roller coaster. I think it is fair to say we all have our ups and downs.
No doubt the biggest down in my life has been to lose a child, whilst the biggest up is my 3 beautiful children and husband.
RHOM is a piece of life with the volume turned up to the loudest possible setting. My ears are ringing, but not to the “Sound of Music. Everything is amplified, regardless of the rightness, wrongness, arrogancy of what is said, the loudest noise gets into the final cut. I adore the fact that so many people embrace the ladies, the drama and the spills.
It’s a little like the “dodgem cars” at Luna Park, lots of intentional crashes and bangs.
Some of the comments used to really hurt me, but now that I understand the genre I go with the flow and roll with the gobbly gook. I’m racist, a snob, a Lydiot , have a fat arse, I’m an adulteress, family wrecker, general rumour spreader, not to mention being called a piece of female genitalia again.
Oh and of course a friendship wrecker!
With the extraordinary amount of attention that has been directed towards me I can only conclude that I am a monster!
But guess what, everyone seems to be interested in what I have or have not done. That seems to be entertaining and amusing a very large audience. So let’s get on with all of this.
Mum’s party was such a fun day, loved and enjoyed all that made it happen, especially my brother John who was brave enough to venture from his very private world into my noisy one.
I genuinely don’t have time to spread all of the stories that have been attributed to me, but hey, am I the only one with a voice on the show, of course not. Contrary to what is alleged it is simply not my style.
The most pronounced and prominent rumour that has been circulating is that I have had multiple affairs. I haven’t seen any evidence to support that, but wow, what effect do you think that has had on my relationship with Andrew.
So let’s talk about wrecking families.
So who really spreads the rumours ?
Luckily, Andrew is my rock and knows the truth.
I have no intention in discussing two rights or two wrongs, Chyka and I have discussed the issue, clarified the truth and moved on and are very supportive of each other. #powerofwomen
Life should be filled with forgiveness , fun laughter and to support each other . I live and die by this, in the meantime let’s leave the volume control on ten and blast away.📢
Ciao for now"
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