Heather writes:
"Hey everyone! Sorry I've been MIA! Crazy end of summer with the kids!
The dinner with Terry....
We had just come from a meeting with our publishers and were on such a high! Ready to celebrate, so it surprised me when Terry brought up Max and the empty chair photos. This was news to me and so sad. Like I said, I can only do so much - at some point Terry needs to take action and be home more.
For all of you who think Terry is working so much to pay for the house we are building let me fill you in...yes, of course that's partially true, but the real reason he is working so much is because he is filming two TV shows AND there's a lot of travel involved. He says yes to everyone, except the family. This has now become obvious to him and he needs to make some choices moving forward. I hope he does...
As far as Kelly goes...
When I told Kelly to leave the sushi dinner I felt it would obviously end the atrocious behavior and that the rest of the people at the restaurant could perhaps salvage their evenings as well.
Was it my place to tell her to leave? Maybe not. As I told Kelly later, when you scream the c-word and dumb f***, etc. at a restaurant and behave in such a manner, you lose the ability to discuss anyone else's behavior or reactions. So I did the next best thing, I left myself. Kelly did text me the next day - I didn't respond because I heard she was imitating me and making fun of me. Pretty much made the text seem like BS, why would I respond?
When I met with Tamra at Storymakery we had our daughters with us (Sophia was not on camera) and they had a ball. We started talking about our upcoming Glamis trip and Tamra raised concerns about having Kelly on the trip especially with kids around and I echoed the concerns.
Seeing Kelly again in Palm Springs imitate me and talk negatively about me is exactly why I didn't want to pursue the friendship. Like I said at sushi dinner - I'm sure she's nice deep down, but her behavior is not acceptable to me.
If my daughter came home from an evening and said, "This girl I was with behaved so badly..." My advice would be to distance herself. Which is exactly what I was doing.
I agreed to have dinner with Kelly because Tamra asked me to. She wanted to see if it was possible to mend things. Remember - my last two encounters with Kelly were the ‘70s party and the sushi dinner. What was I supposed to think???
When I said to Kelly "I didn't say that" about not wanting her around the kids - it was a longer conversation where I meant I didn’t bring it up, because Tamra had...and as I've said I certainly agreed with her. Kelly is showing us who she is and it's not a pretty picture right now.
Anyway, of course I feel bad when Kelly is crying, and she seems remorseful... Who knows maybe it was just an aberration... Twice ... Time will tell and we will have to see what happens in Glamis...
Stay tuned next week for the scariest moment of my life...
Until then..."
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